Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Changes

A lot has changed since my last blogpost. You will notice that the name has changed for a start. I plan on using this blog as a way to work through my life changes and a way to document the new chapter of my life. I am currently legally separated, have a new job and am the sole provider for my three girls.
Last January the kids and I moved home from my moms and back in with my husband. At christmas my husband bought me a new wedding ring as a sign of our renewed commitment to eachother. While I was recovering from the car accident he took such great care of me and I thought he had changed. Soon after moving home things started to fall apart. Through a series of events I developed hives from the emotional stress. It didn't take long to figure out that it was not an alergic reaction to anything. I tried to find ways to cope with it and finally in April I filed and had him leave.
Since then I have had to figure out how to be a single parent again, really I was all along financially and emotionally he just helped with some of he house work. I believe the kids and I have found a routine that works for us and that we love.
About 2 1/2 months ago I found a new job after 4 1/2 years at my previous job. My new job is completely different and challanging. I am so much happier where I am at and have more time with the girls.
The kids are doing great and are thriving from the changes that have occured. Its a challange to stay up on the house work and keep up with everything but we are doing good.